Not Every Woman, wants to be fodder for your spank bank

Dear Men, I would like to preface this by saying I am completely broke - so broke I started a Patreon account that has a balance of $20.00 even, gifted by a man who has become like a father to me, with no one else biting. I woke up this morning on a lumpy bed … Continue reading Not Every Woman, wants to be fodder for your spank bank

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“I’m Gay” is not an acceptable excuse for Child Abuse

We have laws that are supposed to protect children from drunken behaviors of adults, and yet for some reason, those laws don't really seem to matter, to like, anyone ever. I've been in a funk for the last few days, just flat out fucked up over the idea that Kevin Spacey's behavior is perfectly acceptable … Continue reading “I’m Gay” is not an acceptable excuse for Child Abuse

You Knew

Lately, I have been seeing Harvey Weinstein's face surrounded by those of his victims everywhere I go. From the grocery store to Twitter, the faces of Hollywood Survivors follow me. One one hand I feel as if the billion or so women who understand what rape and sexual abuse feel like have won a victory. … Continue reading You Knew

Still Angry

I am struck by how angry I am - it's been awhile since I've been this angry. I am watching "The Butler" on Netflix, and I am curious as I sit here watching a man having just been shot for defending his wife against the white slave owner that raped her. Was it her fault … Continue reading Still Angry

Women Boycotting Twitter is Both Upside down and totally backwards

  Somewhere around the beginning of my thirties, I remember feeling as if somehow a switch had been flipped in my brain as if somehow I was waking up to this new person that I didn't know existed. I've  never felt anything like that, every day I wake up to some new part of myself … Continue reading Women Boycotting Twitter is Both Upside down and totally backwards

Why Didn’t You Stop Him?

I decided to entitle this after my Sister Rachel's post because this has been gnawing at me for years. Not her post, that's new, but the definition of sexual abuse. Sexual abuse, also referred to as molestation, is usually undesired sexual behavior by one person upon another. When force is immediate, of short duration, or … Continue reading Why Didn’t You Stop Him?

James Cameron and Marvel need to do better for women!

Dear men, you're really stupid sometimes. I am so tired of men deciding what women need. Cameron, a famous director - a story teller of epic proportions has decided that Wonder Woman isn't a good role model for women because she is too objectified.  I'd like to call him a bunch of names, but I'm working … Continue reading James Cameron and Marvel need to do better for women!

You Don’t What It Is Like To Be Me

This post is dedicated to Heather Heyer, who died on August 12th, 2017, standing up against Nazi Fascists in Charlottesville, Virginia. There are no words to describe the amazing woman you are. Your life was stolen far too early. May you somehow, rest in peace. - Devon         This post may offend … Continue reading You Don’t What It Is Like To Be Me

I Disappear, For Those About To Rock

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nYSDC3cHoZs I have spent the majority of thirty-four years worrying about what people think about me. Every time I write a post and get little more than one comment I worry that I'm doing something wrong with my blog. Maybe I'm just not smart enough, funny enough, maybe I'm just not "special" enough to have … Continue reading I Disappear, For Those About To Rock

Never before has volunteering given me as much pleasure

There really is something to this whole following your dreams stuff. Recently as many of you know, I started volunteering at CJSF and it's been a truly eye opening experience, more so I think than ever before. Part of the reason I think this experience is so different is that Radio as a whole is … Continue reading Never before has volunteering given me as much pleasure