She Talks Might Be the Most Important Event You Ever Attend

  Several months ago I went to an event held by another organization who I can’t name – but I mention it because at that event they put on a play about spousal abuse. Here’s the thing, not only have I been the victim of abuse (many times over really) but I also witnessed Spousal…

Is Online BDSM Bullshit or Nah?

Years ago I remember reading an article that said that men and women actively seek out the partner they think has the best opportunity to procreate. Apparently we do it without thinking it’s sort of an instinctual thing. What about BDSM relationships tho? Most BDSM couples come together because of common kinks as opposed to…

He Ghosted, I Win

Last Week: Friday night I went out and had a time with some friends, talked to some strangers, drank some piss poor whiskey and had a few laughs. Saturday and Sunday was a calamity of errors – I hurt both ankles, burned my back in the shower, hit my face and head on a closet…

I’m not perfect and I’m not going to attempt to be

Let me start this off by saying this.   I’ve talked about this before but apparently it needs more clarification. You do not know me. You cannot possibly know me because I don’t even know me. I’m trying harder to get to know myself than you ever will because you are justifiably trying to get to…